Folks, I have another question for you. As I've never gotten married before, I'm not completely sure what the answer is here :)
Do I wear my engagement ring during the ceremony?
I've seen photos of brides who did, but more photos of brides who didn't.
I've
done a little research (*cough*HERMIONE*cough*) and I know that
back-in-the-day, there was no distinction between engagement rings and
wedding bands- the bride only wore one ring, which she sometimes
received at the engagement. Or, if there was a separate wedding band,
she stopped wearing the engagement ring altogether after The Big Day.
I
do know women who no longer wear their engagement rings, but keep them
stashed away in a jewelry box to pass on to their daughters one day.
Not me, buddy- I love this rock and I'll wear it until my fingers fall off!
Some
women wear the engagement ring on their right hand for The Big Day and
then leave it that way afterwards- like my friend, BM MrsB.
That's
not going to work for me, either. I wear my college class ring on my
right hand every day, and I plan to wear it on The Big Day, too. I'm
sure some people will find that tacky or otherwise be personally
offended in my choice of jewelry, but here's the thing- to me, that ring
represents a lifetime of incredibly hard work, not just the 4 1/2 years
I spent in beautiful Blacksburg. That ring represents all the best
parts of me- and as I'm bringing myself to my groom on our wedding day, I
think it's fitting to wear that ring.
So, the diamond isn't going on my right hand.
What
I'm wondering is- is it such a big deal if I wear it during the
ceremony? If anything, it'll remind Mr. Potion which hand to put the
wedding band on :) (He was holding my right hand during the proposal
and I had to switch hands for him when he pulled out the ring!)
Besides, if I don't wear it, where will I put it? I can only imagine
that in all the chaos going on that day, if that ring isn't on my
finger, it'll probably get lost in the piles and piles of wedding crap
we'll be schlepping around.
So what do y'all think? Should I:
-Just wear it- there's no rule that says you can't!
-Make my mom hang on to it because clearly she won't have enough to do that day
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