Before I dive into this post- Mr. Potion, if you're reading this, GO AWAY.
Dory, from Disney/Pixar's Finding Nemo // I tell ya, I could have a successful career making Paint graphics |
Just a month after we got engaged, I flew down to Mobile to meet my family for Christmas. A lot of the women in my life live in Mobile, and I wanted them to feel like they had a chance to be involved in the wedding planning process, so I thought I'd schedule a dress shopping trip at a boutique during my visit, just to try on a few dresses and be girly for an afternoon. I didn't think I'd actually find anything on my first trip, and I certainly didn't think I'd buy anything.
Spoiler alert: I WAS WRONG. Big time!
I have nothing but positive things to say about this little boutique in downtown Mobile, The Timeless Bride.
image via The Timeless Bride // Terribly cheesy website, absolutely wonderful shopping experience |
The shop is arranged in 3 sections: a front room full of veils, headpieces, and shoes, all as old as the dresses; a dressing room area with elegant little chairs, a couple of floor-length mirrors, and a platform for the bride to stand on; and a large warehouse-style room full of racks and racks of dresses. The dressing room is also lined in racks of dresses, and the walls are decorated with bridal hats- this is Alabama, after all.
The store only has 2 consultants on staff, and only one was in that day, so for my appointment our party had the store all to ourselves. Everyone took a seat and the consultant pulled out a questionnaire to go through with me. She asked things like when and where the wedding will be, whether it will be indoors or out, daytime or evening, formal or casual, and so on. Then she asked for my budget.
Like any bride (or almost-bride), I've wasted way too many hours of my life watching "Say Yes to the Dress" and weeping silently when the bride provides her answer to this question. You see, Mr. Potion and I had made a budget by this point, and we had budgeted exactly $500 for the bridal ensemble- INCLUDING shoes, veil, jewelry, and dress. "Say Yes to the Dress" had taught me that you can buy a veil for $500 (maybe), but not an entire outfit. I was already assuming I'd be going over this portion of the budget, and that it would be difficult to find dresses to try on that were $500-600, much less dresses that I actually would want to purchase.
So it was with much trepidation that I whispered, "$500...no more than $600," in response to this kind woman's question. I expected to be laughed out of the store, or at least to receive a little lecture on the ins and outs of quality craftsmanship.
"Sounds good!" is what I got instead.
Finally, she asked if I was looking for anything in specific. I told her about my Mammaw's dress, how it was so beautiful but hadn't been properly preserved and was much too small for me anyway. She pulled out a scrapbook full of past clients whose vintage dresses The Timeless Bride had restored and refashioned, convincing us to at least grab Mammaw's dress to have them clean it. They could definitely make her dress bigger to fit me- they would have to install a panel and corset lacing in the back, and the train would have to be removed because of damage to the lace, but it could be done.
The only problem was I didn't want to wear a shorter version of that dress that had corset lacing...I wanted to wear that dress. So we decided re-making Mammaw's dress wasn't going to be the right option. I didn't want to completely dismantle the beautiful thing in the hopes that maybe my little cousin or, heck, my future daughter would be able to wear it as it is.
I explained the elements of Mammaw's dress that I liked the most: the sleeves, the lace, and the full skirt. However, I knew a shorter dress would probably be more within my budget, and if that was the case, I was willing to go with a tea-length dress instead of one with a train. Basically, I was looking for either Grace Kelly's gown or Audrey Hepburn's iconic dress from Funny Face.
image via Fashion-Era // photo by MGM/LIFE Magazine |
from Paramount Pictures' Funny Face |
If anyone lives in or near Mobile, AL, I HIGHLY recommend you shop here! This was a one-of-a-kind shopping experience that every bride deserves! I wanted to stay all night and try on everything!
Okay enough blabber- time for pictures!
Unfortunately, we didn't get a picture of the first dress. It was from the 60's and was the most unique wedding dress I'd ever seen! It was an ivory colored crocheted short-sleeved sheath dress. Yes, crocheted. The dress remained a contender for a while, but for some reason we didn't get a picture of it.
This dress is from 1948! // {personal photo} |
from Disney's Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs |
very 70's! // this image and all following are personal photos |
More '70s! |
short sleeves! |
This was the oldest dress in the store, from 1920! |
So which one did I pick? Because, SPOILER ALERT- I picked one of these! You'll just have to tune in next time to find out!
Would you ever consider wearing a wedding dress that had been worn by someone else? What kind of boutique did you buy your dress from? Did you find *the one* on your first trip?
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